Green flag, red flag — or beige?
The internet can't stop arguing about relationship habits, so now you can argue about them together. Each game deals twelve habits — sharing your live location, replying “k”, staying friends with an ex, sleeping in socks — and you each vote green flag, beige flag or red flag.
Your flag report shows the great debates (one of you says green, the other red), the flags you agree on and who the stricter judge is. Share any debate and your friends can vote to break the tie.
The three flags
Green flag — a sign of a good one. Remembers your coffee order, brings snacks unasked.
Beige flag — not good, not bad, just a little weird. Narrates every dream. Owns 4,000 unread emails.
Red flag — a warning sign. Goes through your phone. Texts “we need to talk” and vanishes.
Questions
What is a green flag in a relationship?
A green flag is a habit or behaviour that signals a healthy, caring partner — like remembering your coffee order or bringing you snacks without being asked.
What is a red flag in a relationship?
A red flag is a warning sign — something that makes you think twice, like going through your phone or leaving you on read and then posting a story. In this game it's mostly about laughing at where you each draw the line.
What is a beige flag?
A beige flag is a habit that is neither good nor bad, just a little weird — sleeping with socks on, narrating every dream, having 4,000 unread emails. The term went viral on TikTok for exactly those harmless quirks.
How do we play Green Flag or Red Flag?
Each of you votes on the same twelve relationship habits — green, beige or red flag. Play on one phone or send a challenge link. When you've both voted, you see your great debates (one says green, the other red), the flags you agree on, and who the stricter judge is.
Do we get the same habits every time?
No. Each game deals twelve habits from a bigger deck, so you can play again and get new debates.
Can our friends vote too?
Yes. Share any habit from your results as a debate link. Friends vote green, beige or red and find out whose side they're on — no signup needed.
Do you save our names or votes?
No. Nothing is sent to our server. Your names and votes live only in the links you share, so only people with the link can see them.