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75 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples (Funny, Flirty and Clean)

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Quick answer: To play never have I ever as a couple, each hold up five fingers and take turns reading statements like "never have I ever reread our old texts." If you've done it, put a finger down and tell the story. Below are 75 clean never have I ever questions for couples, sorted into funny, about us, dating history, flirty and long distance.

Never have I ever is a party game, but it's even better with just two people. Every "I have" comes with a story, and you'll hear things you'd never think to ask about.

These 75 never have I ever questions for couples stay playful and clean, with sets about your relationship, your dating past and long distance. If you're playing on a call, our list of 45 things to do on FaceTime has more ideas for the rest of the evening.

How to play never have I ever with two people

Each of you holds up five fingers (or ten for a longer game).
Take turns reading a statement. If you've done it, put a finger down.
Anyone who puts a finger down has to tell the story.
First person to lose all their fingers picks the next game or plans the next date.

Over text, keep score in your messages: each "have" is a point, and the loser buys the first coffee on your next visit. You can also play it as one of the texting games for couples while you wait for each other's replies.

Funny never have I ever questions

Never have I ever pretended to know a song and mumbled the words.
Never have I ever fallen asleep in a movie theater.
Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person.
Never have I ever laughed at a joke I didn't get.
Never have I ever walked into a glass door.
Never have I ever eaten food that fell on the floor.
Never have I ever talked to my pet like it's a person.
Never have I ever Googled myself.
Never have I ever cried at a commercial.
Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid someone.
Never have I ever forgotten someone's name right after they told me.
Never have I ever waved back at someone who wasn't waving at me.
Never have I ever been kicked out of a group chat.
Never have I ever practiced an argument in the shower.
Never have I ever lied about reading a book.

About us never have I ever questions

Never have I ever stalked your social media before our first date.
Never have I ever planned what to wear for one of our calls.
Never have I ever worn your clothes when you weren't around.
Never have I ever reread our old texts.
Never have I ever told a friend every detail about our first date.
Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from you.
Never have I ever fallen asleep while you were talking.
Never have I ever practiced saying "I love you" before saying it.
Never have I ever been jealous of someone you talked about.
Never have I ever lied about being busy to seem cool.
Never have I ever screenshotted something you said to show a friend.
Never have I ever kept something you gave me that you'd forgotten about.
Never have I ever made a playlist about you.
Never have I ever imagined our wedding.
Never have I ever forgotten an important date of ours.

These are the ones where you'll learn the most. Answer honestly, and promise each other upfront that nobody gets in trouble for the truth.

Dating history never have I ever questions

Never have I ever been on a blind date.
Never have I ever ghosted someone.
Never have I ever been ghosted.
Never have I ever gone on a date just for the free meal.
Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher.
Never have I ever written a love letter.
Never have I ever been dumped by text.
Never have I ever had a crush on a friend's sibling.
Never have I ever said "I love you" first.
Never have I ever been on a double date.
Never have I ever fallen for someone online before meeting them.
Never have I ever stayed up all night talking to someone.
Never have I ever had a celebrity crush last more than five years.
Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship before this one.
Never have I ever been set up by my parents.

Flirty (but clean) never have I ever questions

Never have I ever winked at a stranger.
Never have I ever flirted to get out of a ticket.
Never have I ever had a dream about you.
Never have I ever sent a selfie and then deleted it.
Never have I ever taken twenty photos to get one I liked.
Never have I ever kissed someone in the rain.
Never have I ever had a first kiss on a first date.
Never have I ever slow danced in a kitchen.
Never have I ever been caught checking someone out.
Never have I ever written your name in my notes app.
Never have I ever planned a surprise date.
Never have I ever kissed under mistletoe.
Never have I ever sent a voice note just to say goodnight.
Never have I ever blushed reading one of your texts.
Never have I ever fallen asleep on a call with you.

Long-distance never have I ever questions

Never have I ever cried at an airport goodbye.
Never have I ever counted down the days to a visit.
Never have I ever fallen asleep waiting for your text.
Never have I ever stayed up past 2 a.m. because of a time difference.
Never have I ever smelled a shirt you left behind.
Never have I ever watched a movie with you online.
Never have I ever checked the weather in your city.
Never have I ever sent you a care package.
Never have I ever lied about being fine so you wouldn't worry.
Never have I ever looked up flights just for fun.
Never have I ever timed a meal to eat with you on camera.
Never have I ever saved a voice note to replay.
Never have I ever argued about a time zone mix-up.
Never have I ever planned our whole next visit in my head.
Never have I ever kept a photo of us as my lock screen.

Want to follow it with a real game? The long-distance games you can play by link include live Battleship and Connect Four, with nothing to download.

Ground rules that keep it fun

Set the level first. Agree whether you're keeping it silly or going a little deeper.
Nobody gets punished for the truth. The game only works if you can be honest.
Skip any question. Either of you can pass, no explanation needed.
Stories beat points. The score is a reason to ask "wait, when?"

Looking for more two-player ideas? Our guide to free games for couples covers 13 you can play on one phone or two.

Start with the funny ones, work up to the ones about you two, and keep a list of the best stories for your next visit.